Week 7: Grief Group Observations & Hike for Hope!
Amita B -
Hi everyone! Welcome back!
Observations
As part of my research, I’m also doing observations in grief groups as another source of data. I take (mental) notes on what emotions show up—like sadness, anger, and confusion—and how kids of different ages respond. Since I don’t want to make it uncomfortable for the kids by bringing out a notebook or phone during grief night (because they’re in a safe space), I take mental notes and later write them down in a document I’ve created.
Some things I’ve noticed are that there are moments of silence, and sometimes the conversation shifts when talking about their special person. I pay attention to those moments and how they differ between younger kids and teens. I also compare what I observe to what I’ve read in research studies and online resources.
Additionally, I would like to share that one of the most eye-opening parts of this project has been hearing people’s stories. As someone who is still grieving, it’s been powerful to listen to others—especially children—talk about the people they’ve lost. The kindness and vulnerability in these grief groups remind me that even when we feel alone in our grief, we really aren’t.
And lastly, one thing I really admire about Billy’s Place is that every volunteer has lost someone, too. That shared experience makes a big difference. When a kid doesn’t want to speak during a discussion, a volunteer can step in and share their own story. That way, the group isn’t just being led—it’s connected. We’re all part of the conversation, and it helps ease the pressure and anxiety that can come with talking about grief.
Hike for Hope!
Another exciting update: we’re getting ready for the annual Hike for Hope this Saturday! This is a special event that honors loved ones and supports kids who are experiencing grief. It’s a free community event, and I wanted to share it with everyone in case you’d like to attend or spread the word!
This year’s theme is “Riding the Waves of Grief”—a reminder that grief is unpredictable, never linear, and always ongoing. I love this theme! It really resonates with what I’ve felt personally and what I’ve observed in my research: grief comes in waves, not in perfect stages. This idea isn’t often shown in movies or on TV, so I’m glad it’s being highlighted here.
I also really appreciate that this year’s hike is free and open to everyone, which removes the barrier of cost and makes space for more people to participate and feel supported. Grief can feel very isolating—especially in the U.S.—but events like this help rebuild a sense of community and connection right here in the Valley.
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